Using emotional intelligence to motivate |
We need to practice emotional intelligence on our daily life, if we want to get the best results possible and achive our maximum goals either personal or financial. Emotional intelligence can be used in a wide variety of areas, you can be using emotional intelligence to motivate.
You can use emotional intelligence for personal relationships, for business relationships and for motivation also. Now, how can we use emotional intelligence to motivate? lets see some important points.
Emotional intelligence is very effective for leaders. A leader can be for anything or anyone that needs guidance, strategy, motivation and productivity. An effective leader will be good at those areas and thus achieve maximum results.
First it doesnt matter if you are a leader for your son or an organization you need to develop this ability. You need to learn how to handle your self and relationships the best way possible.
for this you need the emotional intelligence competencies:
Self awareness
self management
Social Awareness or empathy
Relationship management
Its been proven that we rely on our connections with other for our emotional stability and motivation. Thus is important how you express your self and your emotions because thats how everyone around your will perceive you, if they see confident, self aware, strong and decision making person, they will feel secure and motivated to make whatever they have to do.
Our emotions are perceived by the people around us, even when we are not talking with the person or is non verbal our emotions are match by that person. The more strong cohesion is with a certain group the more the emotions positive or negative will be shared.
When a leader is unmotivated and in a negative mood, its perceive by people around you and they tend to match your mood, because you have set the climate. You need to be more empathetic, the more self aware you are of your actions and express your positive emotions you will create a climate of enthusiasm and motivation.
With emotional intelligence you will try to understand other peoples feelings, but if you feel that person is un motivated and needs help, tell him you goals, your vision. If he doesent work for you and you are just trying to help him to get motivated, ask him how he feels?, what are his deep desires?, what is lacking that makes him be un motivated?, what are his goals?, his vision, his dreams, tell him you success story or make an analogy of some one successful that was at one point struggling like him but he had a vision, took risks and faced life with all he had. left and he made it.
Quick Tip #1
We can improve our Emotional Intelligence EQ by doing some daily exercises |
Quick Tip #2
Emotional Intelligence is vital for the entrepreneur that wants to be successful and needs to deal with a lot of people |
Quick Tip #3
Its not enough to have a high IQ now more than ever we need to develop our Emotional Intelligence to make better business decision and have more hppier personal relationships |
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